A NOTE TO BIRTH MOTHERS
As soon as you decide to work with the Alliance for Children adoption agency, you become part of our family. We are here to give you confidential, non-judgmental, caring support. We are here for you from your first phone call to long after your adoption is finalized. We care about what you feel is best for you and your baby and are here to support you no matter what you decide. After your adoption is finalized, we will continue to support and assist you in reaching your long-term goals and interests.
We are happy to provide birth parent references upon request.
- We know this is not an easy decision. We are here to help you.
- Respect. We will always listen and respect you.
- We will not judge you and will honor your decision.
- Your baby will be placed with a loving and safe family.
- You can choose the family or we can help choose for you.
- You will be providing love, stability, and opportunity for your baby.
- We are adoptees and adopting parents that are grateful to our Birth Mothers.
"I feel like I really bonded with you throughout the whole situation and I really appreciate your help and acceptance when nobody else was there for me. I know it's your job but you definitely went above and beyond to make me feel stronger. I honestly think I would have fallen apart without your guidance. Thank you.”
"I feel good about everything... I know I made a great choice with the adopting parents. It warms my heart to know they are finally able to go home and they can start their new lives. I am very happy with my parent choice. They were almost too good to be true, and I couldn't have asked for a better agency to represent me. I want to thank you the most Nancy. You were so sweet and patient, I am truly grateful. Thank you, for everything."
"Thank you, honestly thank you for always being there for me. This is very important to me and the birthfather, so hopefully the baby will always have a picture of the two people who gave up everything for her to hopefully have the best life. Honestly, I could never thank you enough for not judging us. And being extremely compassionate in this situation. You go above and beyond and having you as our counselor, we feel truly blessed. Again, thank you for all that you do."
BIRTH MOTHER SERVICES
We will help you with medical care
- Finding a Doctor
- Medical Insurance
- Transportation to Appointments
We will help you with your living expenses
HOUSING / TRANSPORTATION
We will help you with your housing
- Finding a Safe Place
- Paying Your Rent and Utilities
- Paying for Your Phone
COUNSELING / CHILDCARE
We will help you with counseling and childcare
- Support Services 24/7
- Assistance with Questions
- Making an Adoption and Hospital Plan
- Childcare for your other children
ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS
Right now, the questions you have can be difficult to ask.
We will answer all of your questions with respect and no judgement.
Why should I work with Alliance for Children?
Alliance has helped birthmothers and adoptive families for over 40 years. We care about your needs during your pregnancy, before and after you place your baby. We can provide counseling, help in finding a doctor and medical care, help in choosing a family, and assist you with pregnancy-related expenses.
Will it cost me anything to place my baby for adoption?
No, it will not cost you anything. The adopting parents pay for the adoption and for help with your living expenses (rent, phone, utilities, food, transportation, and maternity clothes).
Can I choose my baby’s family?
Yes, you can choose the family for your baby. Alliance has families that are loving, stable, financially secure and safe. You tell us what is important to you in a family, for you and your baby, and we will help you find the perfect family.
TYPES OF ADOPTION
Your choice is important.
We want you to tell us what adoption plan feels best for you and your baby.
In an open adoption, you will choose the adopting family, meet and get to know the family and have ongoing contact before and after your baby is born and placed.
In a semi-open adoption, you can choose the family, have contact with the family and/or receive ongoing updates, letters and pictures through our agency.
In a closed adoption, you will ask us to choose a family for your baby and have all communications with the family go through our agency.
We understand this is a difficult decision and are here to support you.
Alliance is here to answer your questions, talk about your options and listen to you and what you feel is best for your baby.
If you have questions or would like to talk, please fill out the form and let us know the best way to reach you.
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